LOVE MATTERS:

A BLOG ABOUT THE RELATIONAL PARADIGM 

 

Unpacking Our Baggage Apr 07, 2025

 From the moment we are born, we are surrounded by messages about who we are, how we should behave, and what makes us valuable. These messages, passed...

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How the Past Shapes the Present Apr 04, 2025

One of the most profound yet often overlooked forces shaping our relationships is the impact of unmet childhood needs. These unfulfilled emotional req...

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A Cycle of Winning and Losing Apr 03, 2025

Many of us enter relationships unconsciously influenced by the competitive paradigm—a subtle yet pervasive belief system that pits individuals against...

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The Imago Dialogue Apr 02, 2025

Zero Negativity is a commitment to put aside your gripes and focus on what is going well for a set period of time.

You might need to start with an h...

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Understanding Conflict Mar 30, 2025

Conflict is an inevitable part of any relationship, but what most of us don’t realize is that the arguments and misunderstandings we experience are of...

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Do I Stay or Should I Go? Mar 30, 2025

Every struggling relationship arrives at a crossroads—a pivotal moment where the question looms: Should we try to fix this, or is it time to part ways...

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Painful Relationship Places Mar 30, 2025

Relationships are one of life’s most profound sources of joy, connection, and meaning. Yet, when they falter, the pain can feel overwhelming, like a p...

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Understanding Your Choices Mar 30, 2025

"If I go, there will be trouble, And if I stay, it will be double."

These words from The Clash echo in the hearts of anyone facing a decision about t...

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