Ready to Deep Dive into the Relational Paradigm?

 

 

"Our partner holds the blueprint for our growth"

THIS is the course that will deeply illuminate how the Core Scene sets the couple up for the most significant healing and growth! We will break each part of the BCR down so you can use any part or the whole dialogue with great ease and skill. This is only made possible when we see the couple (and ourself!) through the Relational Paradigm.

 

FEEL EMPOWERED!

You Will Deepen Your Trust in the Dialogue Processes EVEN MORE!

 

The fundamental dilemma of all human relationships is this:

Why is it so hard to give and receive love when we need to feel connected (and we are NOT FEELING connected)? 

Our survival directive is to cooperate and maintain our attachments. To better understand this dilemma and the solution, we will explore the “software” with which we are born: programs for both survival and programs for connection. The pulse of both giving and receiving is vital to the experience of connection. If we block this in either direction, we become isolated and lose the experience of connection.

Giving and Receiving Love is a fantastic Imago Advanced Class to deepen our understanding of conflict and the power struggle. A polarity often develops in couples -  one experiences great vulnerability in stretching to do something new and the other feels equal and significant vulnerability in receiving the gift of the stretch. This is exactly where they will find the gold in their conflict, a blueprint for their growth, and I want to inspire you to fall in love with the process!

Fall in Love with the Behavior Change Request (BCR) & a Couple's Core Scene!

 
ENROLL NOW
  • Expand your understanding of how and why to use different interventions and when

  • Learn where to be creative within the structure of the dialogue process and the BCR specifically
  • Sharpen your use of sentence stems and doubling to increase connection, safety, and forward movement with your couples 
  • Clarify and deepen the essential theory pieces that help keep you calm and connected to your couples... ALL of your couples!

     

In this course, we will explore...

  • Blocks to Giving
  • Blocks to Receiving
  • The way our picture of relationships determines who we pick and how we then play out the relational dance!

 

INTRODUCING

Giving and Receiving: Loving Wholeheartedly

 

Take Your Imago Couples Work To The Next Level!

Deepen your trust in the dialogue process in this powerful Advanced Course, you will learn how to:

  • Look at the couple's Core Scene 
  • See the BCR as a powerful way to the support a couple's growth and healing. 
  • Explore our blocks around giving and receiving. 
  • Practice concrete ways to work with our couples to access the blueprint held by their partner to heal and grow.

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Giving and Receiving: Loving Wholeheartedly

North America Online 2027

Rather than meeting for three long days, we are choosing to meet for hour shorter days. We will begin at 10 am EST and finish at 4 pm EST with gentle exercises for you to complete between days. 1 hour for lunch each day.  

"I still think about this course when I'm with a couple that feels "impossible"... (telling myself to slow down, say less, go deeper, quit working so hard). Such great learning!" - C.T.

 

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Giving and Receiving: Loving Wholeheartedly

Russia Online 2027

Rather than meeting for three long days, we are choosing to meet for hour shorter days. We will begin at 3 pm MSK and finish at 9 pm MSK with gentle exercises for you to complete between days. 1.5 hours for lunch each day. This course will be taught in Russian and English with translation. (8 am EST - 2 pm EST)   

"I still think about this course when I'm with a couple that feels "impossible"... (telling myself to slow down, say less, go deeper, quit working so hard). Such great learning!" - C.T.

 

GET STARTED TODAY!
NICE TO MEET YOU

I'm Michelle Bohls.

 

I have a confession. I struggled in my marriage with over sharing about what I thought my husband needed to do and under receiving his ideas - and even his love! This course was crucial in me seeing my part. Understanding the unconscious collusions we were playing out, surrendering to receiving love and the gift we are for each other gave us a new lease to transform our marriage!

Harville shared with me that it took him years to fully grasp the Relational Paradigm. That made me feel so much better about my challenges! Once you understand this paradigm, everything about facilitating dialogues also shifts. And most significantly, how you see yourself and the relationships in your life will never be the same. These are the ideas we will cover in the Giving and Receiving: Loving Wholeheartedly course - see the BCR through this lens and you will fall in love with it!